Pat:
I believe the quest for "score" does indeed take away from the Game as some of us love it.
Every weekend we have multiple games--there are usually 2 groups that play off scratch (or close to it) and create pairings/teams accordingly. We then will have a low gross game as well.
Yesterday, we did a 6/6/6 game with team specs, and then did the typical gross game.
My triple on 17 pushed me to 8 over and killed any chances of winning.
The whole round we were obsessed with how many over everyone was, where everyone was sitting, etc.
For the afternoon round, a guy and I went out and did a "winner picks next tee" game--and did a purely match play game, playing the course HOW and WHERE we wanted to play from.
It was some of the most fun I've ever had....we were playing the women's tees on some holes, and the back of the back tees on other holes. In fact, we played NEIGHBORING holes tee boxes on another hole. making an entirely new golf hole than we've ever played.
And guess what, not worrying about score, but rather putting the ball in the hole first, was quite fun.
And it brought back the "fun" to our course--it's not always fun playing a course that's flat and 7300+ yards. It's way more fun to try to cut corners, drive greens, go for par 5s in two, hit to a far away fairway/spot, etc. etc.