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Title: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Jim Lipstate on December 02, 2022, 10:00:48 AM
All of us on the forum are avid golfers and eager to play interesting golf courses. Most of us have very understanding spouses willing to put up with our golf addiction. (Paul Jones - are you reading this?)

My question for the forum is where can you find the perfect blend of captivating golf but also places of interest for the non-golfing spouse on vacation. I am thinking of things such as interesting scenery, restaurants, boutiques, museums etc. Just having a spa on site doesn’t count. I will take Pebble and Carmel off the board as a given. Where else have you been that fills the bill?
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Pete Lavallee on December 02, 2022, 10:31:28 AM
Banff, Lake Louise and Jasper in the Canadian Rockies definitely qualify.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Ira Fishman on December 02, 2022, 10:41:40 AM
My wife plays golf, but definitely Dublin and Edinburgh.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Tommy Williamsen on December 02, 2022, 12:04:23 PM
I'd never do it as a golf vacation alone, but my wife and I had a great time in South Africa. We went to Pilanesberg game preserve for a self-drive safari, and I played Gary Player GC and Lost City. Then we were at a Kruger Park Safari, and I played Leopard Creek. In the Drakensberg Mountains, I played Champagne Valley. We ended UMhlanga Rocks on the Indian Ocean, where I played  Durban CC. It was a great trip.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: DFarron on December 02, 2022, 12:08:35 PM
Charleston …..my wife had never heard of golf before we married 3 years ago but is a great sport when it comes to golf. She encourages me to play on vacation (first wife wouldn’t ) and insisted on walking Kiawah Island Ocean course with me.


She’s a history buff so we saw all the sights of Charleston and she really enjoyed it (and I did too).


We’ll definitely go back, it was a great time.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Stewart Abramson on December 02, 2022, 12:38:05 PM
My wife plays golf, but definitely Dublin and Edinburgh.


That is the answer.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: David Cronan on December 02, 2022, 02:19:46 PM
Boy, it's been awhile since my divorce when we spent a dozen weekends/summer there, but it's tough to beat Traverse City, MI during the last week of July. Some terrific golf for you and your bride can hang out at the Traverse City Film Festival, shopping, visiting various vineyards, sightseeing, taking a day trip to Harbor Springs, Mackinac Island or Petoskey or hanging out on any number of lovely lakes that make Northern Michigan so special.


And, of course, the fudge..... LOL
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Paul Jones on December 02, 2022, 02:43:32 PM
Jim,


My wife loves the ocean/beach… her favorite trips were Casa de Campo and Hawaii (Mauna Kae and Kapalua) with Cabo a distant 3rd.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Jason Topp on December 02, 2022, 03:06:44 PM
Depends on your spouse.


For us, Palm Springs is quite good for this.  We prefer downtown rather than La Quinta.  Modernism Week in February has a ton of great events featuring mid-century modern architecture and art along with plenty of old time celebrity stories and history.  The golf is not fabulous but the weather makes up for it.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Ben Sims on December 02, 2022, 04:48:36 PM
My wife was very clear about any overseas membership I might pursue; there WILL be a train station within the town that we are staying. For this reason, any destination that is close to public transportation to places of interest were a must.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: mike_beene on December 03, 2022, 12:16:27 AM
My wife likes to walk the courses with me. While I would never bring her to a private club to tag along, some places are happy to have her walk (Pine Needles, Pebble for example). Others such a Torrey Pines make you take a cart destroying the whole idea. I get it but it makes me not want to return to certain resorts.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Tony_Muldoon on December 04, 2022, 01:49:15 PM
London.

Trains to Heathlands or Kent Coast.

That's your next decade sorted.😉
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Tom_Doak on December 04, 2022, 06:47:17 PM
If you are looking for a place you can play a few rounds of great golf and spend time sightseeing with your wife, it's New Zealand, hands down.  Almost everyone I know who's brought their wife there says it was their favorite place to visit in the world.


If you're looking to play a different course every day and have your wife enjoy herself separately during the day . . .


Paris, Edinburgh, London, Toronto, Amsterdam, Buenos Aires


The recommendations for the U.S.A. would depend entirely on whether you have access to the better private courses.



Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Mike Hendren on December 04, 2022, 07:37:57 PM
London.

Trains to Heathlands or Kent Coast.

That's your next decade sorted.😉


Boom!  Wife goes mud-larking, Kew Gardens and Chelsea Flower show while I catch trains to Deal, Sandwich, Sunningdale (36), Walton Heath and Huntercombe.  We open a bottle in the evening and compare photographs.  Best trip ever.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Daryl David on December 04, 2022, 07:41:43 PM
London.

Trains to Heathlands or Kent Coast.

That's your next decade sorted.😉


 You have obviously cracked the code.  :D


Boom!  Wife goes mud-larking, Kew Gardens and Chelsea Flower show while I catch trains to Deal, Sandwich, Sunningdale (36), Walton Heath and Huntercombe.  We open a bottle in the evening and compare photographs.  Best trip ever.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Jim Lipstate on December 04, 2022, 09:09:09 PM
Appreciate all the suggestions. My wife and I have been to some of the suggested destinations including Traverse City. Edinburgh and Scotland in general was unbelievable as a destination. We still joke about the spouses doing the ABC tour (another bloody church or another bloody castle) while we trod the Links.


I have been contemplating a bucket list trip to New Zealand. Now that no less than Tom Doak has endorsed the idea I think we will have to go. Thanks Tom! I think you have provided the impetus to make it happen.


As an aside when working with the entrepeneurs who make destination golf happen such as Bandon, Streamsong or Sandhills golf in Nebraska is there thought as how to accommodate the non-golfing travelers? I love playing these courses as basically golfing Disneyland but not as a couples trip. Happy wife, happy life applies to golfers as much as any other population. I would like to see golfing destinations try to develop activities attractive to a non-golfer as part of their business plan.




Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Daryl David on December 04, 2022, 09:55:20 PM
As an aside when working with the entrepeneurs who make destination golf happen such as Bandon, Streamsong or Sandhills golf in Nebraska is there thought as how to accommodate the non-golfing travelers? I love playing these courses as basically golfing Disneyland but not as a couples trip. Happy wife, happy life applies to golfers as much as any other population. I would like to see golfing destinations try to develop activities attractive to a non-golfer as part of their business plan.


It would be a nice thing, but why do it?  Most of these destinations are booked out full for several years without providing any additional amenities for non golfers. No need to spend the capital on that as they couldn’t accommodate them anyway.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: John Kavanaugh on December 04, 2022, 10:41:47 PM
It's rude to take a non-playing partner along if you are going to be paired with strangers at a public facility or resort. If they were worth spending time with you wouldn't be so desperate for a distraction yourself. Golfcuck.com has tee times available.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Jeff Schley on December 05, 2022, 03:45:02 AM
I played down in Costa Rica once and got paired up with another single from Panama, who had his partner with him. This lady turned out to be a South American model (Colombian I think). She just rode in the cart and worked on her tan.
Costa Rica doesn't have great golf by any means, but wonderful vacation spot.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Steve_Lovett on December 05, 2022, 08:58:26 AM
Harbour Town on Hilton Head Island. The Harbour Town Inn is a nice hotel adjacent to the first tee, the golf course is a pleasant walk.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: John Kavanaugh on December 05, 2022, 10:04:21 AM
I played down in Costa Rica once and got paired up with another single from Panama, who had his partner with him. This lady turned out to be a South American model (Colombian I think). She just rode in the cart and worked on her tan.
Costa Rica doesn't have great golf by any means, but wonderful vacation spot.


What did you tell your partner when you went back to the hotel? Haven't we moved past "worked on her tan" as a description of what a woman out in the wild is doing?
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: John Kavanaugh on December 05, 2022, 01:01:43 PM
Did anyone ever take their spouse to Longaberger and buy them a basket?
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Ian Andrew on December 05, 2022, 01:49:00 PM
Some of the travel suggestions are favorites for us too.
Wales was a personal favourite for golf and non-golf.

A few suggestions closer to home:

1. Stay right in downtown Boston and travel out for golf (or in my case work)
2. Cleveland is a highly underrated city for golf, hiking and art.
3. Charleston and Savannah as someone suggested is a great double
4. Providence is another destination like Cleveland, mixing golf and non-golf
5. Stay downtown in Seattle (so much to do) and travel out for some golf


Btw, if you do go Banff and Jasper, play only the two courses and spend your time sight seeing.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: John Kavanaugh on December 05, 2022, 03:06:39 PM
Ian,


I’ve taken my wife to see asphalt plants on “vacation”. Architects and civilians have differing priorities.
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Joe Zucker on December 05, 2022, 03:58:49 PM
Did anyone ever take their spouse to Longaberger and buy them a basket?


I played a junior event there 20 years ago and my mom loved it.  It was probably one of the only times she offered to drive me to the course and spent the entire day there...
Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: Paul Jones on December 05, 2022, 05:14:44 PM
I am a firm believer that you have golf trips and separate trips with family/wife.  When I go on family trips, I get 1 round of golf and have to play early since everyone else likes to sleep in. 








Title: Re: Slightly OT but relevant to the golfer traveling with non-golfing spouse.
Post by: archie_struthers on December 05, 2022, 09:08:30 PM
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My home .::Cape May County


Right here in southern NJ ….we have good to great golf and some of the best beaches anywhere whether it be Ocean City…Avalon / Stone Harbor or eclectic Cape May, with all kinds of diversions


Restaurants are fabulous .::  and the season is good from mid May thru October


Bars with live music all summer , casinos close by for those that need more.  Place is awesome