Certainly there are several on this board who are members of more than one nice private club, but that ain't me.
I'm just talking my situation, Kent. With both a 2-month old and a 3 1/2 year old in expensive daycare, 3 weeks vacation that are spent visiting the wife's family out west, I don't have the means nor the time to have a 2nd club in a place I never visit. I don't even have a 1st private club, just a semi-private one 5 minutes from home that I play on average 2-3 times a month.
I certainly aspire to belong to a nice private club when the kids are older, but I'm not holding my breath. Certainly in retirement. The thought of Harmony (if it happens) and Cuscowilla so near, plus the other courses for diversions, not to mention the mild winters, certainly interests me. But my wife needs to be happy about the place, too.
I also realize that I'm not your target customer anyways.